I like to think that I'm a nice person. I believe I am in general.
Problem is: if you cross me, or I feel wronged by you... you go to the dark side. I can be pretty darn bitchy. In the changes I have had in the past twelve months, there were a few people who I used to consider friends who had a hard time accepting the changes. I'm sorry that those people chose to judge me, but once you have decided to not be a good friend to me, I'm not going to go out of my way to beg you to be my friend.
I have plenty of wonderful people around me who support and love me... so good riddance to you.
I don't have room in my life for fake friends or people who can't support me in a tough time.
Is it horrible of me? Maybe... Feel free to chime in.
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ReplyDeleteI don't think it's horrible...I'm sorry you are having to go through a bad time...
I have learned, be a true friend to those that are important to you, the others are not worth the time or effort.
I will say I am glad that we are friends again...I missed you the last year or so, my own fault!
I think when we go through a really challenging time, we find out who our friends are. On the down side, we may feel let down by some friends or find that some of our friends just can't handle the situation. But on the positive side, sometimes we find bottomless support and acceptance from people who we didn't realize cared so much about us and had our back.
ReplyDeleteOne of my best friends from high school and I reunited during her divorce, and I feel so lucky that such a horrible situation brought such a wonderful person back into my life.
People suck. Sorry, that's my comment. You know me... Love ya girl!
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